Geeks tend to focus on their interests with such laser-like intensity that they don’t often devote much time or study to anything outside their immediate sphere.
They tend to be loners and introverts and uncomfortable in large social gatherings or with new people.
only without all of the downsides of being a real person.
She has a life and interests, desires and experiences.
At one point in her life she was the cute girl you saw at the comic store having a conversation with the clerk about Warren Ellis… She will never think that your love of comics is childish. She is now what you will compare all other women to She is the Platonic Ideal and all other women around are just the shadows flickering on the cave walls. After all, being “in love” with this geek Goddess elevates and find the secret to her heart.
but now she represents everything you wish you could find in a woman. She doesn’t so much as poop, fart, menstruate or scratch herself. Her hair is always perfect, even right when she wakes up in the morning. She’ll love you because of your love for the Tom Baker era Dr. Worshiping her, orbiting around her like a trapped asteroid, the tortured nights alone in your room crying the manly tears of unrequited love… She’s a fetish, an you are paying her the ultimate compliment when instead all you are doing is denying her her own personhood.
OK, I can already hear the fingers clicking as you write me pissed off e-mails and click the “back” button on your browser, but stick with me here, I swear I’m going somewhere with this and it’s not where you think.
At the same time however, they fear the rejection from the opposite sex.
Who needs a romantic dinner or a hike down to a beautiful lake when you can bond over taking out Hunters and Boomers in Left 4 Dead 2?
Bonding is so much easier when you can just talk about video games and comic books instead of having to sweat out finding what you have in common! She’s gone beyond something approachable and now she’s this ultimate being that you can’t believe exists. The best part is, that the Geek Girl will make your life better.
Their early experiences with being taunted, humiliated and judged by others leads them to prefer the company of their fellow geeks almost exclusively; they have their niche and they’re quite happy there, thank you very much.
Because of their own self-imposed isolation, geeks can find that their social skills have dwindled to the point that they have difficulty holding a normal conversation with , never mind women.
One of the most common stereotypes of the modern geek is someone whose social skills are next to non-existant; they can’t maintain a conversation about topics that aren’t science fiction, space opera, urban fantasy, video games, computers or comic books.