At least in principle we understand all that stuff. Time after time dudes were strolling by fantastically hot women with virtually nothing on, apparently without even having noticed.But by God, these guys were seriously NOT LOOKING at women. To be sure, in case you’re wondering the women weren’t stealing a glimpse of a guy here and there either. Note: This has obviously become an incendiary post, to the point of going viral.
These people weren’t just not noticing each other, they weren’t even trying.
They weren’t even tuned in to the “hottie radar” frequency.
We’ve all been to a corporate seminar that warned us as such.
The result is that we as men have been successfully conditioned to leave women the hell alone.
Back at school, if a girl dared wear red underwear beneath white pants our entire dormitory new about it by lunchtime.
Hell, I remember guys in pickup trucks hanging out of windows and hollering at my MOM when I was about four or five years old.
Born between 19, these women represent a portion of the buying public no marketer can afford to ignore.
With successful careers, investments made during the “boom” years, and inheritances from parents or husbands, they are more financially empowered than any previous generation of women.
Please read this other post before commenting if you're unsure about my gender-neutral position on human behavior.] A while back I was on a coaching call with a woman who happens to be smart, successful and beautiful. Granted, knowing how “approach anxiety” has a death grip on most mortal men, it’s not even like I was expecting to witness guys stopping bikini-clad hotties and getting their numbers.
We were actively discussing creative ways she might encourage the kind of man she deserves to introduce himself, start a conversation and sweep her off of her feet. The odds of seeing a jaguar in the wild in Florida are probably greater than that.
And I want to hear from both men and women on this.