Two years later, I did visit him 12 times by then and he did spent 1 month in the Netherlands, we got officialy married in Luxor. Later on we could then sell the house and with that money buy something in Egypt.I agreed, and as we were officialy married, the house would be his property as well as mine.
Some Egyptian men have said that they didn’t figure out their wives until after marriage when they removed their makeup.
One wife was supposedly shot dead because her husband thought she was a male criminal who came to rape his wife.
I didn’t really understand what he meant, but het explained me that in that way we could share a hotelroom as we were going to Luxor. We planned to stay in Holland for several years to earn some money and then move to Egypt. After he had lived here for more than six months, he thought that renting a house, was a waste of money and he suggested we should buy a house.
Later on we could get married in the official way, I agreed. All this with the money I had from an inheritance and a small loan.
If I was already in bed, then he waked me up and cursed at me. I was not a welcome guest in his barbershop, he felt as if I was checking on him.
Nevertheless he expected me to do the book keeping, the billing, the rent and the loans.
Before we went back home he asked for my address and telephonenumber. Two days later he called me and told me that he missed me so much, he was sick because of it. I stayed in the same hotel as before and he was there as well. I fell in love, it was a beautiful holiday and he made me feel like a real woman. This gave me the impression that he was honest and really loved me.
We agreed, that when I would come the next time, we would go visit his parents in Luxor.
I know that dating in Egypt isn't as casual as in Britain due to culture and all of that. Some girls can do everything with you (but no sex) while other girls will not even speak with you in public.