I'm not bitter, I've friend-zoned girls I wasn't interested in myself.
Give and take."Honestly, who in this day and age just comes onto a DATING site to meet just a friend?
Plus in all likelihood you will judge me as 'bad' or 'wrong' for some of the things in my behavior limitations so I am not going to be direct with them, you have to read my mind, and know it's inherent in my definition of 'friends'.""IOW I want the power to control your behavior towards giving me what I want, but I have no desire for the responsibility and possible negative judgments. BUT, will take advantage of "dating", meaning let the guy pay the first couple of times.....
Therefore I go through the back door and offer you the false gift of friendship. If the man says lets go hang out and says "lets go dutch"....she can pull the "I cant beleive you asked me out and want me to pay!!! ....she can pull the "I do want a friend, I want a lover and a friend, hoping to find both"If you come across a woman looking for friends, call her bluff, ask her out and when the bill comes say...."well here is my half"..see what kind of reaction you get.....1.
We have no desire for those who are looking for those thing to contact us.
Not to sound like a homophobe, but if a guy came to me on a dating site, looking to be my friend, I'd probably doubt his intentions would be legit.
Big sigh of relief all 'round for dodging those bullets.
If a girl says that to me, I catch them off guard by going, "Yeah, about that, I have enough friends."Why give a BS answer?If a guy tells you he just wants to be friends, it means he got what he wanted....Deep down, I think coming here for friends is masquerading as ultimately wanting to date."I live in hope that men will stop emailing hoping to change my mind Actually, I am not looking for emails at all....................I have my profile listed as "friends" - "forums" is currently not an option.Friends is one of the "looking for" options the site offers.2. Men and women both select "friends" and "hang out."4.